My mother's
family was very poor. Her Icelandic mother did not speak English and her
Scottish father did not always have work. When I was a little boy, my Mom often
told me stories that I could not believe. I could not fathom the poverty she
described. My Dad had a very good job and we were certainly not poor and there
was no poverty I could see in Calgary. However, my Mom was one of seven
children who were born during the years from World War One through the Great
Depression. They did not have enough money for anything. There was no money for
food, for shoes, for schoolbooks, or for medical care. Mom told me they often
survived on bread, fat drippings, and salt. She left school to work after grade
seven. One memorable story is that after my Mom cut her thumb seriously with a
knife, her mother was obliged to take her to the doctor to have the thumb sewn
back together. As my Mom describes the situation, her mother alternately cried
and screamed in Icelandic all the way to the doctor because the family could
not afford to pay the medical fees. Because of the accident the family did not
eat for a few days.
My mother
has been in my thoughts a lot during this trip to Haiti. The families in Haiti
are likely even poorer than my mother's family, but maybe not. Many children in
Haiti cannot afford school and this reminds me that my mother's education was
cut short. When I purchased three pairs of shoes for my interpreter I thought
of my Mom without shoes as a little girl in Vancouver. Many remark that there
is a circle of life. This can mean many things. I think there are many circles,
and in a strong sense, this trip helped me to complete a circle started with my
mother's stories.